More Family Success Stories Contact: Homeowner Relations (650) 568-7322 housinginterest @peninsulahabitat.org Home Family Success Stories Tonya (Alexander) Connolly and Family A Single Hope for a Single Parent Every single parent has hopes of providing a safe environment for their children -- hope which eluded me as a newly divorced mother of three children. I was living paycheck-to-paycheck and struggling just to buy gas for my drive to a minimum-wage paying job. When I was introduced to the Peninsula Habitat for Humanity housing program, I assumed my chances of obtaining a dwelling were slim to almost none. Two years and 500 "sweat equity" hours later, I was, alas, a homeowner. Having a home for my children and I empowered me. We began to thrive physically, mentally and monetarily. Physically, because we performed 500 sweat hours and had the knowledge to keep our new home maintained and maintenance free. Mentally, because we achieved a goal together as a family unit. Monetarily, because our down payment was paid in sweat equity rather than cash we did not have due to our financial status Ownership went beyond our four walls. It empowered me to strive for success outside of the home. If I could build a house, I could build and secure a stronger future. Ten years and several promotions later, I went from a junior secretary position to senior management. As I reflect fondly on our years at Gloria Way, I smile and always utter three simple words "I did it." In the span of ownership with community involvement, financial guidance and an abundance of courses, I was no longer living check-to-check. I continually remain focused and humbled by the gift bestowed upon my family: pride of ownership. I encourage each family to empower themselves. Stay vigilant, remain focused and above all know that your dreams are obtainable and achievable. Habitat will give you that hand up, not a hand out. Respectfully Submitted, Tonya (Alexander) Connolly and Family